The Balancing Act- Family, Work and You

These days, most of us work two jobs—the one that pays, and the one we love the most raising our kids.
 Being a new Dad is the highest high one can ever experience. I'm a thrill seeker and adrenaline junkie, but these days I'm running on all adrenaline and I'm wondering how far can I ride on this before I crash and burn. Like everything in life we need balance.


I have been researching on websites and forums, to gather tips on how to make it easier to balance both work and parenting at once. Though most of the websites I have visited are mostly for Moms, working Dads can find plenty of helpful advice, too.



Here are a few of the best tips I discovered for balancing work and family:



Get up before your kids do. Painful, but worth it. Getting that extra 15 minutes of sleep is nothing compared to the calmness you'll feel if you get up and get yourself ready first. Whatever it takes for you: work out, take a shower, get the coffee down your throat. When your act is together, it makes it easier to get their acts together.



Prep ahead. You do it at work, why not do yourself a favor and think a few steps ahead at home, too? This can mean anything from picking out their outfits for the next day before going to bed, to making lunches the night before, to prepping and freezing meals for fast and easy dinners. A little prep can prevent a mad dash.



Stick to a routine. Whether it's getting dressed in the morning, or eating dinner at night, make sure your kids know what to expect when, and what's expected of them. A lot of melt-downs can be avoided by everyone knowing the plan.



Stay involved with your kids' care. Okay, so you work during the days, but that doesn't mean you can't be an active participant in your kids' daycare or school. If you can't drop in for lunch like stay-at-home parents, maybe you can bring in an activity for the kids, or a snack in my case a bottle. Or you can use your work skills to do something for the class—maybe build the kids a little website, or else cut out the patterns for a class project. Your kids will feel like you care, and so will the school.



Save some time for you. Make sure when all is said and done that there's some time for you and your partner to be adults together. It can be a lunch date, dinner once a week, or even renting a DVD — just build it into the schedule. It'll help you feel better about all the demands on your time. Because if you're not a happy camper, you can't expect the other campers to be happy.



We all have to do what it takes to keep the ship afloat. Hope these tips help to give your ship a little more buoyancy.I realize that I'm not a veteran at the parenthood game yet, but I'm hoping it pays off to think ahead. Hope you appreciate these tips and I would love to hear some feedback on what other topics you would like to see on the blog.